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You and I Don’t Watch the Same Film

You and i dont watch the same film

I’m constantly surrounded by people asking each other what films do you watch. A question that never gets asked is why do you watch films?

And that answer isn’t simple. It’s not as straightforward as telling people what kind of films you enjoy. Because while it seems like a single question, it has multiple answers. No two people watch films for the exact same reason.

Everyone’s brain functions differently, and that shapes their reasoning for everything. The way one person perceives the world is entirely different from another. The way your parents see the world will differ from how you do. And in the same way, when you watch a film, why you like it will differ from why your partner or your sibling likes it.

One of the most important factors in understanding a film is the state of mind you’re in while watching it. For instance, if I’m going through something deeply personal, something cataclysmic for me, like losing someone I love, and I happen to watch a film that explores a similar relationship, whether it’s a parent, friend, sibling, or lover, that film will affect me differently. It will move me, make me sob, and connect with me on a level it might not reach for someone else. Of course, for that to happen, the film itself has to be good, that goes without saying. But the power it holds is amplified by personal experience. That’s what we mean when we say the meaning behind a film is different for everyone.

Age and maturity also play a huge role in how we interpret films. I’ve seen that shift in myself. When I was younger, I watched films primarily as an escape, from school drama, from things at home, from reality. I wanted to be transported somewhere else. That’s why I loved Harry Potter growing up. And I still do. But the reason behind loving it then and loving it now has changed.

Now that I’m older, slightly more mature, I find myself looking for weight. I look for films that push me into introspection, not just about my life but about life in general. I want to admire characters, to be inspired by them, or even challenged by them. I’m drawn to something extraordinary, whether it’s overwhelmingly positive or deeply unsettling. Something that makes me pause and think, how did someone even come up with this? Something that feels so original that it makes you question the very structure of storytelling itself.

As Martin Scorsese once said, “Cinema is necessary. While the art, of course, can’t survive without the business. I have to say that in the end, the business certainly isn’t gonna survive without the art, which is made by people with something to say.” And over time, I’ve realized I try paying attention to that.

Another interesting aspect is rewatching films. When you watch something multiple times, ten, twenty, even fifty times, you begin to notice things you didn’t catch before. Small details, hidden meanings, subtle performances, choices in direction. Each viewing reveals something new. The film doesn’t change, but you do. And because of that, your interpretation evolves.

There’s also the distinction between a director’s intention and the audience’s interpretation. These are often two completely different things. A director approaches a film with a specific mindset, a vision, an intent. As Alfred Hitchcock famously said, “The more successful the villain, the more successful the picture.” That intention then shapes every decision, every frame.

But what reaches the audience isn’t always exactly what the director intended. There’s often a gap. Not because the audience isn’t capable, but because films are dense. Every small detail matter, but no viewer can catch everything in a single sitting. Most people experience a film as a whole, rather than dissecting its individual parts.

It’s usually on repeated viewings that those finer details begin to surface. And even then, there’s no guarantee that the audience will fully grasp where the director was coming from. Sometimes we only understand certain choices when we hear the director talk about them in interviews. But even that doesn’t invalidate the audience’s interpretation.

A famous saying, “A film is more than the sum of its parts.” And that “more” often lies in what the audience brings to it.

Different people watch films differently. Someone who wants to become a filmmaker might watch with a more analytical lens, paying attention to framing, editing, sound design, narrative structure. They’re actively looking for patterns, techniques, and intent, to themselves learn. But someone watching purely for entertainment won’t necessarily engage with those elements, and that’s completely fine. Neither approach is wrong. They’re just different ways of experiencing the same medium. And art essentially is exactly for that, where you get to absorb the piece of art that you’re viewing on your own terms and give it your own meaning.

At its core, watching films is an incredibly personal experience. It’s shaped by who you are, what you’ve lived through, what you’re feeling in that moment, and even who you’re watching it with.

So maybe the better question isn’t just what films do you watch, but why do you watch them? Because in that answer lies not just your taste in cinema, but a reflection of who you are.

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